One of the most important lessons of life in becoming an enlightened being and integrated Spiritual Master is understanding the concept of letting go of all false gods, idol worship, alternative lovers, and putting everything on the altar of God! To be perfectly honest, there are very few people on Earth who are capable of doing this. Many think they are but they are not. This lesson is connected with the fourth initiation, which is that of renunciation and letting go of all attachments.
To understand this Spiritual test and lesson we must begin with the Story of Creation. In the beginning God loved what He had created. After Creation, however, something was missing. He wanted to share his joy of Creation. So out of Himself He created infinite numbers of sparks of Himself which were the Sons and Daughters of God. What was unique about our creation was that God gave us free choice. Now another way of understanding the Story of Creation is to say that we each are the bride of God, the soul being feminine in nature archetypically. For our wedding gift God gave us all of creation and material creation to enjoy. We each went out and began to explore and enjoy God’s wedding gift to us, however, what began to happen over time is that we became so enamored with the gift of creation and so over identified with it that we forgot about God and got lost in the gift. So in essence, we took on alternative lovers. Some of these alternative lovers were power, fame, greed, hedonism, sensuality, materialism, vanity even to the point of thinking we were a physical body instead of God living in a physical body and a bride to be.
Each one of these alternative lovers, false gods, and false idols in the end brought us suffering. For nothing can bring us true peace and happiness except our marriage with God. After trying out hundreds and even thousands of alternative lovers, false gods, and false idols, and suffering greatly we finally began to remember God, our true marriage partner. So we gave up all these adulterous lovers and began to put all our focus and attention back to God. God already knew we would come back to Him and has been preparing the wedding feast. However, before the wedding can take place we had to give birth to a child, that is the Spiritual/Christ/Buddha/God Child. This of course is symbolic of giving birth to this principle and ideal within yourself. Before the wedding banquet can take place we must raise this Spiritual/Christ/Buddha/God Child into maturity within us. This is the path of initiation and ascension or the path of Self and God Realization. Then we will ascend back into Heaven as Elijah did, as Jesus did, and all the great Masters did! We will be welcomed home like the Prodigal Son or in this metaphor as the bride to be! This cannot be done, however, until all false gods, idol worship, and alternative lovers are released and let go of. When we do this we move from being the adulterous lover as Mary Magdalene was at first, to being the Virgin Mary. We all become the Virgin Mary when we let go of all adulterous lovers. I want to add here that the term alternative lovers was coined by Paul Solomon and want to give him credit for that.
Another way of saying this is that everything must be placed on the altar of God! When I say everything, I mean everything! That includes children, romantic relationships, friends, and everything! Whatever you put first in life is your God and that is whom you worship!
So here is a beginning list of some of the false gods, false idols, and alternative lovers you must put on the altar of God:
Power
Fame
Money
Sex
Bad habits
Addictions
Lower self desires
Feelings and emotions before God
Intellect before God
Drugs
Alcohol
Food
Material possessions
Child before God
Romantic relationship before God
Negative emotions
Hedonism
Good physical health
People before God
Psychic powers before God
Masters and Angels before God
Extraterrestrials before God
Vanity before God
Self-aggrandizement
Superiority and inferiority
Attachments
Anger
Fear
Self-centeredness
Negative ego
Lower self
Carnal desire
False pride
Greed
Negative ego duality
Jealousy
Competition
Appearances
Profession before God
Family and friends before God
The five senses
Physical body
Sensuality
Inner child
Psychology
Romantic love before God
Self indulgence
Procrastination
Victim consciousness
Laziness
Automatic pilot
Putting the gift of creation of god before god himself
Science before God
Church before God
Religion before God
Teacher before God
Minister before God
Astrology before God
Divination before God
Selfish self-expression before God
Separation before God
Survival before God
Creativity before God
Subconscious mind before God
Physical appetites before God
Putting your physical life before God and your brothers and sisters
Temptation before God
Business and career before God
Politics before God
Scripture before God
Glamour, maya, and illusion before God
Imbalance before God
Self will before God’s will
Spiritual glamour before God
Limited lens seeing before God
Self-righteousness before God
Moodiness before God
The law before God
Man’s law before God’s law
Self-preservation before God
Martyrdom before God
Self-doubt before God
Grudges before God
Judgment before God
The bible before God
Self-interpretation before God
Inefficient perception of reality before God
Guilt before God
Self-pity before God
War before God
Personal agendas before God
Impure motives before God
Lack of integration before God
Materialism before God
Ungroundedness before God
Too much/too little sleep before God
Disobedience to God’s laws before God
Karma before God
Success before God
Personal desires before God
Impatience before God
Fantasy before God
Suffering before God
Punishment before God
Crime before God
Lack of integrity before God
Lack of consistency before God
Sensitivity before God
Past before God
Worry before God
Lack of faith before God
Gossip before God
Badmouthing others before God
Seeking approval
Technology before God
Going after other people’s puzzle pieces
Physical health before God
Fatigue or wakefulness before God
Monetary success before God
Arrogance before God
Intolerance before God
Fault finding before God
Lack of self love and self-worth before God
Adultery before God
Stealing
Using the Lord’s name in vain
Lack of control of one’s attention
Idle mind
Not keeping love of God foremost in one’s consciousness before loving gifts of God more
Cursing!
Emotional roller coaster
Lack of service
Not being willing to help oneself
Lack of self-discipline
Impulsiveness
Lack of self-mastery
Excuses before God
Improper priorities
Seeking impermanent goals instead of eternally permanent goals and spiritual ideals
Putting kingdom of earth before kingdom of heaven
Gluttony
Outer business
Horizontal identification
Doing instead of being
Beliefs